I
think about lost love a lot. The experience of lost love in past
relationships is like a learning experience for me from which I try
to learn as much as I can, so I never repeat that situation again.
Lost love gives insight and understanding. Instead of wallowing in
misery, I try to move forward with the new knowledge. Lovetraction
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Lost
love has happened a few times to me, as I'm sure it has to many
people. Each time, it would feel like agony, my grief wearing on me
like fire. I would feel like my love was gone forever and I would
never find love again. Of course, I was always wrong. I would move
forward, sometimes reluctantly, but always finding another love that
would be stronger for my past experiences of love that I lost.
To
quote from a famous movie, "Life finds a way." What
everyone needs to remember concerning lost love is that, like
everything else, love has its own lifespan. Whenever I lost love, I
had to remember that some lifespans are longer than others, and
accepting it helped me move forward with my life. To experience joy
again was the result of learning how to make sense of what had
happened when I lost love.
Looking
back over love that was lost and seeing that the lifespan of each of
these events was actually longer than the one gone before it made me
realize that with each experience of it, I was able to fine tune and
improve the relationships each time, each time making them stronger
than the time before. It may not have felt like a positive thing at
the time, but I look back now and realize those were times of
positive growth.
As
with many people, every time I had the experience of lost love, I had
the feeling that I would never again feel love, that it was gone
forever. And of course, I was always wrong. I would find happiness
again and joy. But at the time, happiness and joy would seem
impossible to ever have again. I would move on, and eventually
understand that each of these experiences made me stronger and taught
me much about myself.
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